Archive for January 30th, 2009

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Antiques and Chef’s From Hell: A night out with Tim and Jason

January 30, 2009

It was a great evening at the Young Collectors’ Night, Winter Antique Show to Benefit the East Side House Settlement.  The event was held at the Park Avenue Armory–a gorgeous facility and I’m sure it’s the nicest looking armory around! (figures for Park Ave, right?)    We attended as guests of Scott Buccheit, who bid up a storm during the silent auction and managed to bring home several great items! (Go Scott!)

Courtney, her art collection and the slice of pizza that brought us together
Courtney, her art collection and the slice of pizza that brought us together

 

Guest of a Guester Ariel Moses was also in attendance along with several hundred well-dressed guests.   The quote of the night: “everyone looks great, but it’s all stuff from the closet because no one is buying any new clothes!” (Definitely true for us!)

Friend Scott Buccheit

Friend Scott Buccheit

The event featured some amazing collections, with 75 exhibitions from  specialists in American Antiques and works of art.  Everything from Shaker folk art, to Colonial art and aesthetic movement pieces.  We especially enjoyed the George Washington on display in Courtney’s booth, although truth be told our hunger and the slice of pizza she was eating was the initial draw.  It turned out to be a win-win situation since we both discovered the location of pizza  and got to check out her amazing paintings!

Park Ave Armory

Park Ave Armory

From there Jason and I headed to the Hell’s Kitchen Premier Party at Hudson Terrace while Scott went home to drop off his winnings.  As we got out of our cab we immediately ran into our friend–the positive celeb blogging phenom Micah Jesse. (we hadn’t seen him since the Michael Phelps “hosted” bowling event at Bowlmore in September…we missed him!)   

On the red carpet with our friend Micah

On the red carpet with our friend Micah

It was a fun party– we did a little red carpet walking with Micah and met one of the contestants on the show, Seth Levine, who, quite dramatically, was nearly eliminated on the premier episode!  (luckily he survived to next week or that would have been one big party downer!)   Keith Richard’s daughters Theodora and Alexandra dee-jayed, while Seth’s sister, designer Alisha Levine, and many other of his family members partied along with actress Sophia Bush of One Tree Hill and the movie John Tucker Must Die fame. (one of Jason’s favorites)  They seemed very excited to meet us as well, and hopefully we will have them fencing in the near future! 

Sophia Bush from the show One Tree Hill and the movie John Tucker Must Die along with Hell's Kitchen contestent Seth Levine and designer Alisha Levine

Sophia Bush from the show One Tree Hill and the movie John Tucker Must Die along with Hell's Kitchen contestent Seth Levine and designer Alisha Levine

I’m also thinking Jason and I should start dee-jaying soon…it seems to be the new hot trend!  Although my ipod filled with 80s ballads, indigo girls and the Dixie Chicks might not get the party going too well!

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6 Books The Helped Me Qualify For the Olympics

January 30, 2009

What does it take to be a champion or to just get to the next level?


The role that reading (yes, reading!) has played in my fencing career’s growth and my mental development as an athlete (It’s been huge!) has been critical to my success.  We spend hours and hours working out and practicing to get our bodies ready, but an athlete’s mental state is even more important than the physical one and how many people truly set aside the ample time needed work on that?  

 

There are plenty of amazingly physically gifted athletes, but the ones I know that reach the top do so because of their mental strength.  The use of sports psychologists is growing and while I haven’t gone that route (yet), I have spent many hours working on my mental abilities and reading has been a major tool for me, especially books on self-development and the study of success.  Here is a compilation of the books that helped me to achieve my Olympic dreams…(I’ve also included links to more extensive synopsis if you’d like to learn more)

 

 1) 7 Habits of Highly Successful People
By Stephen Covey

This book was recommended to me by my friend Melea Nallia few years ago and I’m eternally grateful that she brought it to my attention!  A really awesome book about how to operate effectively with some great exercises for reflecting on your life as well as some good organizational tools.  I especially love the parts about time-management and how to spend your time more focused on long-term goals each day versus getting caught up in the urgency of day-to-day things that might not be as critical.
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2) Good to Great

by Jim CollinsGreat business book, but the idea of finding your “hedgehog” was a really useful idea that helped me in my fencing career in 2006 before I made my big international breakthrough.  The idea goes: A fox is clever and can do many things well, but the hedgehog always wins against the fox even though the hedgehog only does one thing… the catch is that the hedgehog does its one thing better than anyone else.(It curls up into a ball and it’s impenetrable to the fox!)   At the time, I was fencing matches using a very large variety of actions that I did well, but it got me thinking about what moves are actually my best and which I might be able to develop to be the strongest in the world.  As a result, I spent more time working on my defense which I realized was bringing me more touches and might be my strongest mastery area.  The next competition I made my first world cup final in Tunis! 

 

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3) Now, Discover Your Strengths

by Markus Buckingham & Donald Clifton I used to spend all my time at thinking about and working on the things I couldn’t do well.  I never really spent time thinking about my strengths.   After reading this book, I began to spend more time working on what I did well, to do it even better, while continuing to work on weakness areas, but without that being the focal point of every practice.  Having a strengths based mindset is really helpful and this book has a great test to help you figure out what your strengths in life might be and how to best use them as well!

 

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4) Awaken the Giant Within

by Anthony RobbinsMy most recent read.  Re-enforces what I believe that the first and most important thing to do is set big goals and go for them even if you aren’t sure exactly how you will get there when you set them.  When I first set the goal to make an Olympic team, I wasn’t even ranked in top-16 in the USA and I was already in college and “old” and most people said I woudln’t be able to do it.   There are some great mental exercises to start to shift your mental states and  I love how ihetalks about controlling the emotional state you’re in versus letting the external environment control you.  This is so important when you are competing to get yourself into a strong and familiar mental state each time regardless of what else is happening.
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5) Confidence: How winning streaks and losing streaks begin and end

By Rosabeth Moss Kanter


This is an interesting read about how momentum of winning and losing can be a perpetual cycle if you let it be and how to break losing streaks.   Book also talks about the idea from Duke Coach Mike K about having a mental “baseline”.  It goes, no matter how bad or good a play his team made, he always wanted to them to come back to a familiar and “baseline” mental state so that they would always be operating in a familiar zone.   To this day, I will tell myself “reset” and “baseline” as a mental trigger to bring myself back to a grounded mental state no matter if I have scored a big touch or had a big touch or bad break go against me.

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6) Outliers: The Story of Success

by Malcolm Gladwell 


This is a great book that examines who becomes successful and who doesn’t.  A lot of his findings challenge what we think about who becomes successful and who doesn’t and that circumstances do play a huge role.  However, he talks a lot about the 10,000 hours rule.  This rules basically states that it takes 10,000 hours of practice to master an activity and that essentially, the idea of innate ability is flawed and that the reality is that the amount of practice actually makes the biggest difference! Yeah, for hard work! I would also recommend Gladwell’s other books Tipping Point and Blink.

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